Originally Posted by
Libby
Phoenix, that is, basically, my thinking. I would only amend that I do believe God is absolutely sovereign, but he does not, generally, exercise his sovereignty over man, especially, in regards to salvation. He desires that we all come to him and, I believe, he does draw us all...all the time...but, not all are receptive, and even though he is sovereign, he does allow individual agency.
He will not "force" us to come to him, but he will "aid" us, in coming to him, if we ask and desire it.
Calvinists believe that God's people have been chosen (by God) before the foundation of the earth and they had no say in it, whatsoever. It was totally God's doing. Which means, it was also God's doing that all the rest are destined to hell.