ok,,,first...are all sins equal?


the correct answer is "yes and no"


this is because you have to define the context of things....
"Yes" all sins are equal in that from the biggest sin to the smallest you can be sent to hell for doing....it does not matter if its even a very small sin...you burn.....see James 2:10


but on the other hand.....



On the other hand "No"

God is not crazy ..he knows there is a HUGE difference between and murder and stealing a cookie.
This is why Jesus does talk about a range of sins at John 19:11