Phoenix, I know you believe in proselytizing, because your church does it, as well.

But, something Gordon Hinckley said, that I think was good advice (and maybe he was quoting someone else) was that we should build someone a new and better house, before we tear down the old.

I think critics of the LDS Church (including myself) sometimes get that backwards...which could be why so many ex-Mormons end up as atheists.

Just a thought.