so once again:

The way that God is God...is that God is in 3 persons.
All are God.
All are equally God.
but the Son is not the father ....nor is the father the Son.
The Father the Son and the Spirit are all different persons.
3 persons within the one true God.

Thus the Father can talk to the Son and the Son can submit to the father..and the Son and the father can love each other...