would that make a difference to you?
Here is a story.
Not long ago a guy named "Jim"and another guy named "Billy" used to post here all the time.
They seemed to always end up in the very same debate over the sex life of Smith with the same nice Mormon lady that also used to post here very often.
Jim and Billy used to say that Smith had many wives.
The nice Mormon lady condemned this idea and said it was all lies from the Anti-Mormon factions who left the Mormon church and are now just very bitter.
I was reading the posts, and the same old arguement was going back and forth, and then Jim started to press the nice Mormon lady on the question of "What if?"
They were asking her "What if Smith did have many more wives?"
"What if some of the wives were under age?"
"What if it was a sexual incounter he was engaged in with the underage girls?"
I think Jim and Billy wanted the nice Mormon lady to state that if it ever came out that Smith had more than one wife, or if it came out that he had sex with underage girls, that she would stop believing in his testimony and consider the Christian church anew.
But....try as they might, Jim and Billy could never get the nice Mormon lady to state that she would quite the Mormon church if it ever came out he had more than one wife, or had sex with underage girls he called is "wife"
Then....one day....
I had a person who was a guest, who is Mormon, but also was married to a Christian, and this person wrote to me a Private Message and told me that a change had happened to the standard teaching about Smith and the issue of "other wives".
I did not really know what to make of this...But Jim and Billy did!
And we never really saw that nice Mormon lady around the forum anymore.
She had openly stated over and over that the idea that Smith had other women was only an Anti-Mormon lie, to the point that it must have been too much of a shock to now try to defend that very same idea she had attacked others for holding...
Now we skip ahead in time to today.
The Mormons I run into now are very open and proud of the other women that Smith had.
But they also know that there is a big problem getting people to look the other way when the issue of a little 14 year old child comes up.
Mormons know full well that its hard to put a better "spin" on the idea of a full grown man taking a little girl into his bed to perform sex with..
So the current way of putting a better spin on the situation is to ask for proof that all the so-called "Smith marriages" were always sexual?
This defense hinges on the fact that, "
We dont have a sex tape of Smith and the little girl" and so the hope is that in this current age of sex tapes being so openly discussed in the media that people will think, "
If there is no sex tape,then it did not happen"
That is the defense Im hearing from the Mormons.
Perhaps that is the defense you seek to use now with me?
You can try to use it, after all it's what Im hearing on this forum too from time to time from other Mormons.
So go for it!
Use it!
Thats what Im hearing.
But what Im not hearing , is actually what is
speaking louder on this issue.
We are
not hearing a direct statement that "
SMITH never married a 14 year old little child!"...
We are
not hearing,
"If it comes out later that Smith did have sex with that little 14 year old girl it would mean his whole testimony was a big lie"
"If it was sexual, he could not have been a true prophet!"
that's what Im
not hearing...
The Mormon church is not saying that officially because they know of other shoes left to drop on the matter.
The average Mormon is not saying that to me, because like the nice Mormon lady, they dont want to end up on the wrong side of this should the church suddenly change the official position on the sexual status of Smith's marriages to underage girls.
So I ask you the question again I asked at the top of this:
"Would it matter to you?"
We have already seen firsthand how a teaching long debated was suddenly switched as if it was the same position they had held all along, so I got to wonder what you would think should the official teaching about the sexual natures of Smith's marriages to underage girls start to evolve into openly stating that :
"Yes of course it was a normal sexual marriage."
Would that matter to you?