How does that negate what I have said? Yes, the Father draws all of us, and those he knows in advance will follow Christ, are chosen and given to him.That is not what Jesus taught
John 6:36*But you haven’t believed in me even though you have seen me. 37*However, those the Father has given me will come to me, and I will never reject them.
John 6:44*For no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them to me, and at the last day I will raise them up
You're just used to seeing those verses through your own Calvinist lens.