I think Alan was okay with your dictionary definition...but, I'll let him clear that up for himself.

I know Calvinists don't believe we have the kind of "free will" described in your dictionary definition.

And this brings us back where we were discussing Arminian verse Calvinism and how I was trying to show that each side could make a claim that a person didn't have a real choice therefore it wasn't fair.
Yeah, this one caught me a little off guard. It's probably wrong to say that God does not have expectations that we cannot meet. His expectation is perfection and we sure as heck cannot meet that. We actually do need God's "grace" every step of the way.