I an glad to see that you agree with me on something, but you miss my point about OSAS and Arninianism both being true simultaneously, and not exclusive of each other. We humans in out limited capacities of reason and logic want to make them exclusive. My theological position as a OSAS believer is to ask how can I reconcile the two positions without disparaging the Arminian position?

You see the "fight" between the Calvinist and Arminians is largely an in-house fight. It is akin to two teen aged boys trying to best each other in the living room of their house, and in the process, they may move furniture of break some lamps.

As long as the brothers are alive, they will remain brothers, and remain in the same family even after they have their own distinct families.

Here is an example of my attempt to reconcile two verses favored by both sides:
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John 10:27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father's hand

Isaiah 49:16 Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.

Hebrews 6:1 Therefore leaving the principles of the doctrine of Christ, let us go on unto perfection; not laying again the foundation of repentance from dead works, and of faith toward God,
2 Of the doctrine of baptisms, and of laying on of hands, and of resurrection of the dead, and of eternal judgment.
3 And this will we do, if God permit.
4 For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost,
5 And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,
6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame
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If you can imagine a child holding M&Ms in his fist, that is how tightly Jesus holds his Children, but it is more than that, believers are tattooed on the palms of God.

OTOH there is Hebrews 6:4-6 that tells us clearly that there are some people who "were enlightened, tasted, partook and know the powers of the world to come" to renew themselves into repentance because they are re-crucifying Jesus again.

Yes, I am guessing here, and I reserve the right to be wrong, but I believe that when Esau sold his birthright to Jacob for a bowl of red oatmeal that MAY be an example of what Hebrews 6 is talking about.

You see, no one took away the birthright of Esau; he willingly gave it up because it was not of much value to him. So that section does not speak of "back sliding" but I believe that is may be possible for one to relinquish the rights of their salvation.

When Absalom did all his nasty stuff to his father David, he relinquished any rights he had to be a son of the King because he openly showed contempt for his father. That may be another example.

So what I have done here is maintain the truth of both sections of verses and try to make a way to bring them together as brothers in the same book of God's words. Do you think that you could do likewise?
I do see what you are attempting to do. You are beating a dead horse and expecting it to react. You cannot be dead and alive at the same time. You cannot be black and white at the same time. You cannot be right and wrong at the same time.

I cannot see how OSAS can be true and false at the same time. It just doesn’t compute. Now that I have said all that; show me!